Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Finally I can move on


Dear D.

You meant so much to me that words can't explain. You've been by my side through thick and thin. You taught me how to see the world in another's eyes. You helped me find who I really was, and who I want to be, you filled my heart with so much joy, but then something went wrong; it was in a blink of an eye how you took it all away. You started to fade away, and I begun to see who you really were. We said good bye and that we'd meet again, maybe even go back out! Today I see you ... you're so different. People tell me that you've gone down the wrong road and you're not doing so well. I think of all the memories we shared and I want to thank you. I wish you the best, like you use to tell me, "Reach for the highest star, follow your dreams and heart and you will get what you want; don't let the haters bring you down." Thank you very much! You left a hole in my heart when you walked out the door, but maybe now I can move on.

Wednesday, March 11, 2015

Homosexuality

Homosexuality

What does the Bible teach about practicing homosexuality? It's in the Bible, Romans 1:26-27, NIV. "Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion."Note: The Bible does not condemn a person for having same-sex attraction/homosexuality, but rather only the act of homosexual behavior.Is practicing homosexuality a sin? It's in the Bible, Leviticus 18:22, TLB. "Homosexuality is absolutely forbidden, for it is an enormous sin."Is the practice of homosexuality the worst sin a person can commit? Many people, even “Christians” may say this, but the Bible says all sin leads to death. It’s in the Bible, Romans 6:23, NKJV. “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.Pride, greed, and laziness are sins all the same, just as much as homosexuality is a sin. It’s in the Bible, Ezekiel 16:49, NKJV. “Look, this was the iniquity of your sister Sodom: She and her daughter had pride, fullness of food, and abundance of idleness; neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.” Note: The Bible does not single out homosexual behavior, but also includes other sins offensive to God, including idolatry and other sexual sins. Like all sinners, practicing homosexuals are called to repent. It's in the Bible, I Timothy 1:10-11, TLB. "Yes, these laws are made to identify as sinners all who are immoral and impure: homosexuals, kidnappers, liars, and all others who do things that contradict the glorious Good News of our blessed God, whose messenger I am.What hope is there for me if I am practicing? All sinful patterns can be stopped, and God offers forgiveness, renewal, and restoration.   It's in the Bible, I Corinthians 6:9, NKJV. "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God."There is hope for the practicing homosexual. It's in the Bible, 1 Corinthians 10:13, TLB. "But remember this—the wrong desires that come into your life aren't anything new and different. Many others have faced exactly the same problems before you. And no temptation is irresistible. You can trust God to keep the temptation from becoming so strong that you can't stand up against it, for He has promised this and will do what He says. He will show you how to escape temptation's power so that you can bear up patiently against it."The weakest, the most struggling soul, may live, and find hope and sufficiency in God. It's in the Bible, Isaiah 42:3, NIV. "A bruised reed he will not break, and a smoldering wick he will not snuff out. In faithfulness he will bring forth justice."If you are a practicing homosexual, what should you do?First acknowledge your sin. It's in the Bible, Psalm 51:2-4, TLB. "Oh, wash me, cleanse me from this guilt. Let me be pure again. For I admit my shameful deed—it haunts me day and night."Second, Ask forgiveness for your sin—God says you can start over again. It's in the Bible, Psalm 51:7-12, TLB. "Sprinkle me with the cleansing blood and I shall be clean again. Wash me and I shall be whiter than snow. And after You have punished me, give me back my joy again. Don't keep looking at my sins—erase them from Your sight. Create in me a new, clean heart, O God, filled with clean thoughts and right desires. Don't toss me aside, banished forever from Your presence. Don't take Your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me again the joy of Your salvation, and make me willing to obey You."Third, Believe that God has indeed forgiven you and quit feeling guilty. It's in the Bible, Psalm 32:1-6, TLB. "What happiness for those whose guilt has been forgiven! What joys when sins are covered over! What relief for those who have confessed their sins and God has cleared their record. There was a time when I wouldn't admit what a sinner I was. But my dishonesty made me miserable and filled my days with frustration. All day and all night Your hand was heavy on me. My strength evaporated like water on a sunny day until I finally admitted all my sins to You and stopped trying to hide them. I said to myself, 'I will confess them to the Lord.' And You forgave me! All my guilt is gone. Now I say that each believer should confess his sins to God when he is aware of them, while there is time to be forgiven. Judgment will not touch him if he does. You are my hiding place from every storm of life; You even keep me from getting into trouble! You surround me with songs of victory.Fourth, believe that God has a plan for your life, and that He truly cares for your well being!  It's in the Bible, Jeremiah 29:11, NKJV. "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”  Trust that in His perfect timing, He will work His plan out for you.  That may mean to be single, or it may mean to get married. Either way, you can live a happy, productive life living for Him.  He truly does want what is best for your life. 
Jesus does not ask you to be straight or gay, but rather calls you to holiness in and through His victory. It’s in the Bible, Galatians 3:28, NKJV. “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”
"So think clearly and exercise self-control. Look forward to the gracious salvation that will come to you when Jesus Christ is revealed to the world. So you must live as God’s obedient children. Don’t slip back into your old ways of living to satisfy your own desires. You didn’t know any better then. But now you must be holy in everything you do, just as God who chose you is holy.  For the Scriptures say, “You must be holy because I am holy." 1 Peter 1:13-16, TLB.


Friday, January 23, 2015

Healing Wonders of Charcoal

    Who would have though that the lowly, soft, brittle, light, black, porous material which gives glow to fireplace will eventually be burning hot in the market of traditional medicine at the present.
    Despite the popularity of charcoal, there are still some people who are not sold to its potency due to misinformation and cluelessness. As they visit the nearest drugstore and supermarket they become ash gray over the dizzying prices of charcoal in tablet, capsule, or activated form.
    Charcoal therapy need not burn a hole in the pocket. It can be initiated right within, without leaving the confines and comfort of home. Healing Wonders of Charcoal is an inexpensive medium that provides information on the history and the effectiveness of charcoal treatment. It is product of more than three decades of thorough studies from insect bites to the most complex diseases as cancer.
    It contains easy to follow procedure and step by step application of Charcoal therapy. It includes real cases of patients whose lives and physical condition have been made whole through the healing wonders of Charcoal.

Science Speaks of Charcoal Therapy

    The use of charcoal in treating diseases is a product of long years of scientific studies. Raymund G. Hall said that knowledge of charcoal's phenomenal capacity for adsorption has been around for millennia. Hippocrates, as well as ancient Egyptian doctors, suggested its use for medicinal purposes. many problems, from poisoning to dizziness, were treated with it.

Physical Characteristic of Charcoal

    What is charcoal? Charcoal is defined as an amorphous, porous form of carbon made by the destructive distillation of almost any carbonaceous material such as wood, coconut shells, animal bones, and corn cobs.
    Wood, coconut shells, and bones of animal do not produce harmful chemicals, such as methylcholantherene and benzopyrene in the process of burning. Wood charcoal contains about 90 percent carbon, whereas bone charcoal contains about 11 percent carbon, 9 percent calcium carbonate, and 78 percent calcium phosphate. The term "charcoal" should accurately be reserved for the residue from carefully controlled heating of various organic materials without oxygen. Coal and charcoal briquettes, (a molded charcoal powder) are not safe for medicinal purposes. Partially burned wood has no therapeutic effect.
    In 1783, a German-Russian pharmacist, Tobias Lowitz, discovered the decolorizing and deodorizing properties of charcoal. He reported to the Russian navy in 1795 that he could purify water with charcoal. In 1793 Karl Hagan first explained the adsorptive characteristic of charcoal as a physical property.

Industrial Uses of Charcoal

    Charcoal is used as a domestic fuel for both heating and cooking. It is used for replacing coke (a black substance from coal used as a fuel) in the processing of some types of iron, for making black gun powder, for carbonizing steel, for production of calcium carbide, sodium cyanide and carbon tetrachloride, and for making arc electrodes. Activated charcoal is used to decolorize sugar and to purify drinking water, oils, and variety of substances in the chemical, food, and pharmaceutical industries. It is used in air-conditioning system to remove odors and irritants. It is also used in industrial and military gas masks, in the exhaust system and coolant gas system of nuclear reactor installations, adsorbing and holding radioactive contaminants until the isotope decays. It is also used in removing carbon dioxides and purifying air in atomic submarines.
    Chemical warfare was almost stopped in its tracks by the intelligent use of charcoal in World War 1. Although charcoal has to be replaced frequently, it has never been supplanted as a practical agent for removing poisons from the air.

Medical Uses of Charcoal

    The medicinal properties of charcoal are given a strong boost by the United States Dispensatory (a book that tells how to prepare and use medicines). Its 1845 edition says that powdered charcoal is an antiseptic and adsorbent. Besides giving direction for making charcoal, the Dispensatory list several problems that can be treated with charcoal. Charcoal powder can be given for dyspepsia (poor digestion) where foul breath and smelly eructations are present, and for the offensive smell in the bowels which usually attend pregnancy. In poultice form charcoal is excellent for foul and gangrenous ulcers, correcting the odor, and improving the conditions of the sore. The poultice should be frequently renewed.
    In 1846, Garrod found that charcoal was an effective antidote for animals against poisoning by strychlonine, opium, morphine, aconite, elaterium, veratrum, stramonium, cantharides, and some minerals. In 1948, Rand extended Garrod's studies to humans. he also worked on the quantitative relationships between charcoal and particular poisons. In those early days, poisoning, anthrax, epilepsy, vertigo, and many other problems were treated with charcoal. In 1857, Bird recommended charcoal as an absorbent for the gasses resulting from indigestion.
    In the 1930's, Nahmmacher asserted that charcoal adsorbs wound secretions, bacteria, and toxins. It does not only keep bacteria from entering the blood stream, it also withdraws bacteria from the blood. When the uterus becomes infected, inserted "pencil charcoal" (charcoal shaped like pencils) can adsorb bacteria and toxins while it coats to prevent the adsorption of bacteria and toxins into the surrounding tissue. He inserted charcoal "pencils" about 5 cm. long, 5 mm. wide, and 5 mm. thick for cases of infected abortion, pyometra, puerpueral endometritis, or in cases of cesarean section, after the membranes have raptured.

Plain, Activated, and Capsulated Charcoal

    Charcoal powder is now made into capsules tablets. People ask whether plain charcoal is just as effective as activated charcoal powder, capsules, and tablets for the treatment of diseases.
    What is activated charcoal? Activated charcoal is produced by heating or burning wood, bone, or coconut shell in a furnace or in a kiln to temperatures of 800-900 degreeC (1470-1650 degreeF) pass in steam to remove carbon dioxide and other substances. This process results in the formation of a highly developed internal pore structure with very large surface area that may be as high as 2,000 square meters per gram. Thus, it affords a high quality of adsorption.
    Luella Doub said plain charcoal has great power adsorption. It adsorbs poisons and foreign substances that get into the body. Activated charcoal does the same work but it does even better. Its adsorptive power is tremendously increased by the activating process.
    Commercial tablets and capsules have been found about half less effective as compared to finely powdered charcoal. One study revealed that pulverized charcoal taken by humans prevented the adsorption of drugs by 73 percent, whereas the tablets prevented only 48 percent. A tablet containing 0.44 gm. total material has only 0.33 gm. of charcoal. The remaining is starch.
    Activated capsules are roughly twice as potent as the tablets. One tablespoon of charcoal stirred in a glass of water is equivalent to four capsules of activated charcoal or eight pieces of regular charcoal tablets.

Adsorptive Properties of Charcoal

    The most important work of charcoal powder in the treatment of diseases is to adsorb chemical substances that are harmful to the body, like germs, viruses, toxins, wound secretions, and other products of infections.


No Side Effects. No Known Contradictions

    All studies showed that charcoal is not harmful when ingested, when inhaled, and when applied on the skin.
    Workers in charcoal manufacturing plants have been studied to determine the effects of breathing the dust of the charcoal. It was found that the incidence of any respiratory system was extremely low, suggesting that breathing the dust was quite innocuous.
    There are no known serious effects of charcoal unless it is a specific allergy to some specific substance in it. Charcoal is one of the most effective remedies known to man. It is an excellent adsorbent, inexpensive, and harmless when properly used.
    Except for an occasional finding of bowel irritation in a certain inflammatory state in very sensitive person, there is no known contradiction to the use of charcoal.
    Activated charcoal is well tolerated even up to 100 grams or about 3/4 of a cupful of pulverized dry charcoal, and there is no known contradiction to the use in acute poisoning. It is immediately effective and can be easily used by men without medical background. Charcoal is the most valuable single agent currently available for treating poisoning.

Charcoal Therapy in the 19th Century


    The use of charcoal as a simple remedy for different health problems is an ancient way of treating many common diseases that afflict humankind dates back to the time of Hippocrates who lived from 460 to 370 B.C.
    In the late 1800, Ellen G. White spearheaded the use of charcoal in the treatment of different diseases. A sincere and prayerful Christian, she wrote many books including health books such as: Ministry of Healing, Medical Ministry, Counsels on Diet and Foods, Happiness Homemade, Healthful Living, Temperance, Counsels on Health, and Selected Messages in three Volumes.

She Said:

    "The Lord has given some simple herbs of the field that at times are beneficial; and if every family were educated in how to used these herbs in case of sickness, much suffering might be prevented, and no doctor need be called. These old-fashioned, simple herbs, used intelligently would have recovered may sick have died under drug medication.
    "One of the most beneficial remedies is pulverized charcoal, placed in a bag and used in fomentations. This is a most successful remedy....I have prescribed this simple remedy, with perfect success....This works like a charm.
    "I expect you will laugh at this; but if I could give this remedy some outlandish name that no one knew but myself, it would have greater influence....But the simplest remedies may assist nature, and leave no baleful effects after their use.

Indications of Charcoal Drink

    The diseases and some physical disorders indicated for charcoal drink are alphabetically arranged.

1. Amoebic dysentery             
2. Anemia                               
3. Animal and insect bite          
4. Anorexia (loss of appetite)    
5. Arthritis and gout                 
6. Bad breath (halitosis)
7. Bladder infection
8. Bladder stone
9. Blood cleansing
10. Cancer
11. Chicken fox
12. Cholera
13. Cough
14. Diabetes
15. Diarrhea
16. Dysentery
17. Dyspepsia (poor digestion)
18. Ear disorder
19. Eye problem
20. Fever
21. Flu (Influenza)
22. Gall Bladder infection
23. Gall Bladder polyp
24. Gall Bladder stone
25. Gas pain
26. Glaucoma
27. Hematoma
28. Hepatitis
29. Heart burn
30. Heart disorder
31. HIV/AIDS (still experimental)
32. Hyperacidity
33. Indigestion
34. Infection abortion
35. Infection of the ovaries
36. Infection of the pancreas
37. Infection of the gland
38. Infection of the uterus
39. Inflammation
40. Jaundice
41. Kidney Infection
42. Leprosy
43. Leukemia
44. Liver disorder
45. Malaria
46. Measles
47. Mastitis
48. Myoma
49. Meningitis
50. Nausea and Vomiting
51. Painful urination
52. Pertussis
53. Poisoning
54. Post surgical case
55. Prostitis
56. Rheumatism
57. Sinusitis
58. Snake bite
59. Stomach ache
60. Tonsilitis
61. Tuberculosis
62. Tympanism (butod)
63. Typoid and dengue fever
64. Ulcer
65. Uremia
66. Urinary disorder
67. Urinary tract infection
68. Vaginal Infection
69. Veneral diseases



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Jay Caspe Falcatan
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This book is personal work of the author. The school and the church where the author belongs are non-partisian of its production.

Charcoal therapy has no side effects, no known contradictions, and no danger overdose. The author, however, and the school and the church where he belongs, and the publisher hold no legal responsibility for any complication or death during and after charcoal treatment.

Saturday, January 17, 2015

Look Ahead to Strengthen Your Relationship

Do you and your partner ever make some time to just sit and talk about where you see your life going? Do you discuss what you are thinking of getting accomplished this year as well as where you’d like to be ten years from now?

Getting through the weekly responsibilities takes a lot out of most of us. Evenings usually last only long enough to have dinner and maybe watch a little TV or play a game. It’s hard to muster the mental strength to deal with anything very serious. And by the time the weekend rolls around, many people are simply too exhausted to enjoy it while others fill up their weekend with activities, which is fine. With so much going on day to day, it’s totally understandable if setting aside time to plan for the future feels like one thing too many.

Yet the truth is that futurizing with your mate is a healthy activity that will make you both happier, because as you look at the future, you’ll be creating things to look forward to, and that’s where happiness comes from. One thing that successful relationships all have in common is that the couples in them make plans for the future, both near and long term. Making plans builds a bond and a stronger sense of security in our hearts. We all have dreams and desires that we want to share with the people we love, but if you don’t talk about them and create a way to make them happen, you will just live life in your head.

Planning for the future with your partner is not hard at all, once you begin. You might start by picturing yourselves living together well into your golden years and talk about what life will be like for the two of you. Sometimes you can see your own future by just looking out your front door.

When you get older, being able to live on your own and being able to get around will become primary issues. You need to make plans for how you can maintain the lifestyle that you want and what you will do if that’s not possible.

If you plan to be with your partner for the long haul, communicating about what you want and need beyond the next trip to the market or to travel is something you need to do. One benefit of this process is that when something in life changes the way you live, you can get back on track much more easily.

Being able to talk about your future together, sharing your hopes and dreams for the rest of your lives, is a true gift.


Monday, January 12, 2015

Six Important Facts About Jesus' Second Coming

When Jesus will come

Jesus’ disciples asked Him one day, “ ‘What will be the sign of your coming and of the end of the age?’ ” (Matthew 24:3). Jesus answered this question in two ways.
Fact 1:  We don’t know when Jesus will come. During the past century, various groups and individuals have set dates for Jesus’ second coming, among them: 1914, 1964, 1988, and 1994. During the 1990s, some people predicted that Jesus would come on or about the year 2000. However, Jesus said, “ ‘No one knows about that day or hour, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father’ ” (verse 36).
So, it’s useless to set dates for the second coming of Jesus ourselves or to get excited about the dates others set. Many people get burned out when date after date passes and nothing happens, and they give up all hope in Jesus’ return.
Fact 2: We can know when His coming is near. Jesus did say, however, that we can know when His coming is near, just as we know that summer is near when we see leaves sprouting on the trees (verses 32, 33). And He gave us several signs by which we can know this.
One of these signs is the global preaching of the gospel. “ ‘This gospel of the kingdom will be preached in the whole world as a testimony to all nations,’ ” He said, “ ‘and then the end will come’ ” (verse 14).
We humans will never know when every person on earth has had a chance to hear the good news about Jesus and His offer of eternal life to all who believe in Him. But one point is very evident—it’s easier today than it has been at any other time in human history to share the good news with every human being. Think of it: TV, radio, books, magazines, and newspapers—and now the Internet and the World Wide Web! Given the right circumstances, the whole world could hear the gospel overnight!
The Bible also says that shortly before Jesus returns, the world will be very fascinated with spiritualism and communication with demonic spirits. For example, Jesus said that prior to His return “ ‘false Christs and false prophets will appear and perform great signs and miracles to deceive even the elect—if that were possible’ ” (verse 24). In a similar passage in Revelation, John said that “demons performing miraculous signs” will gather the kings of the earth for the battle of Armageddon (Revelation 16:14–16). And Paul said that at the time of Jesus’ return, Satan will come displaying “all kinds of counterfeit miracles, signs and wonders” (2 Thessalonians 2:9).
It’s significant, I believe, that today we see a rapid buildup in New Age channeling and other forms of so-called communication with the dead. This is a sign of Jesus’ soon coming, and it’s also a warning that we must not accept miracle workers simply because they seem to have supernatural powers. Satan can work miracles, and he performs his miracles to deceive people.

How Jesus will come

Jesus predicted that prior to His return impostors will appear at various places on earth, claiming to be Him. “ ‘Watch out,’ ” He said. “ ‘For many will come in my name, claiming, “I am the Christ,” and will deceive many.’ ” That’s why He warned, “ ‘If anyone tells you, “There he is, out in the desert,” do not go out; or, “Here he is, in the inner rooms,” do not believe it’ ” (Matthew 24:4, 5, 26).
Fortunately, no one has to be deceived. There are three ways you can recognize the real Jesus when He comes.
Fact 3: His coming will be a public event. For one thing, Jesus’ coming will be the most public event in the history of the world. The Bible says, “Every eye will see him” (Revelation 1:7), and Jesus Himself said, “ ‘As lightning that comes from the east is visible even in the west, so will be the coming of the Son of Man ” (verse 27).
Not only will Jesus’ coming be visible, it will also be very, very audible. Paul said, “The Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God” (1 Thessalonians 4:16). And he told the church in Corinth that “the trumpet will sound” at Jesus’ second coming (1 Corinthians 15:52).
Fact 4: He will come in the clouds. Jesus also said that He will come  ‘on the clouds of the sky’ ” (Matthew 24:30)—a fact that is repeated several times in the New Testament. For example, in Revelation, John wrote, “Look, he is coming with the clouds” (Revelation 1:7). Later, in an actual vision of Jesus’ second coming, John said, “I looked, and there before me was a white cloud, and seated on the cloud was one ‘like a son of man’ ” (Revelation 14:14).
Fact 5: The dead will be raised to life. Jesus said,  ‘A time is coming when all who are in their graves will hear his voice and come out’ ” (John 5:28, 29). Those who have done good “ ‘will rise to live’ ” (verse 29). Jesus didn’t say just when this will happen, but Paul explained that it will happen at Jesus’ second coming: “The Lord himself will come down from heaven, . . . and the dead in Christ will rise first” (1 Thessalonians 4:16).
So you can know that anyone claiming to be Jesus is an impostor unless he appears on clouds in the sky with the sound of a loud trumpet and raises the dead to life.

How to be ready

The next important question is, How can you and I be ready for Jesus’ return? And the answer is the sixth important fact we need to know about His second coming.
Fact 6: You can be ready. Even some people who think they are ready for Jesus’ second coming will discover they aren’t. He warned, “ ‘Not everyone who says to me, “Lord, Lord,” will enter the kingdom of heaven’ ” (Matthew 7:21).
So, what must you and I do to be ready for Jesus to come?
First, we must recognize the wrong things we’ve done and make them right. If we’ve harmed someone, we should make amends. And while God doesn’t require us to overcome all of our bad habits before He will accept us, He does want us to acknowledge them and put ourselves on the side of overcoming them. The Bible calls this “repentance” and “confession.” We must also accept Jesus’ death on the cross for our sins and ask Him to forgive those sins.
When we have met all of these conditions, God does two things for us. First, He forgives us. And second, He transforms our minds and emotions so that the evil things we once loved we now hate and the good things we once hated we now love. Christians call this the “new birth.”

The hope of Jesus’ coming

Are you getting tired of pain and suffering and sickness and death? God promises that in the new home Jesus is preparing for us “ ‘he will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things [will have] passed away’ ” (Revelation 21:4).
When Jesus comes, those of your friends and loved ones who were believers and have since died will be raised to life. They will join with God’s people who are still alive on the earth, “and so we will be with the Lord forever” (1 Thessalonians 4:17). No wonder the Bible invites us to “encourage each other with these words” (verse 18).
Wouldn’t you like to be ready to meet Jesus when He comes? All you have to do is ask Him to come into your life.
The best fact of all is that you can say that prayer right now!

Dating and Sex


What to avoid on dates. It's in the Bible, Romans 13:13, TLB. "Be decent and true in everything you do so that all can approve your behavior. Don't spend your time in wild parties and getting drunk or in adultery and lust, or fighting, or jealousy."Dating should not include a sexual relationship. It's in the Bible, I Corinthians 6:13,18, TLB. "But sexual sin is never right: our bodies were not made for that, but for the Lord…That is why I say to run from sex sin. No other sin affects the body as this one does. When you sin this sin it is against your own body."Keep yourself pure. It's in the Bible, I John 3:3, TLB. "And everyone who really believes this will try to stay pure because Christ is pure."
To keep from hurting ourselves, sexual desires and activities must be placed under Christ's control. It's in the Bible, I Thessalonians 4:3-5, TLB. "For God wants you to be holy and pure and to keep clear of all sexual sin so that each of you will marry in holiness and honor—not in lustful passion as the heathen do, in their ignorance of God and his ways."
If you have already gone too far physically, what should you do?
First, acknowledge your sin. It's in the Bible, Psalm 51:2-4, TLB. "Oh, wash me, cleanse me from this guilt. Let me be pure again. For I admit my shameful deed—it haunts me day and night."
Second, Ask forgiveness for your sin—God says you can start over again. It's in the Bible, Psalm 51:7-12, TLB. "Sprinkle me with the cleansing blood and I shall be clean again. Wash me and I shall be whiter than snow. And after You have punished me, give me back my joy again. Don't keep looking at my sins—erase them from Your sight. Create in me a new, clean heart, O God, filled with clean thoughts and right desires. Don't toss me aside, banished forever from Your presence. Don't take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me again the joy of Your salvation, and make me willing to obey You."
Third, Believe that God has indeed forgiven you and quit feeling guilty. It's in the Bible, Psalm 32:1-6, TLB. "What happiness for those whose guilt has been forgiven! What joys when sins are covered over! What relief for those who have confessed their sins and God has cleared their record. There was a time when I wouldn't admit what a sinner I was. But my dishonesty made me miserable and filled my days with frustration. All day and all night Your hand was heavy on me. My strength evaporated like water on a sunny day until I finally admitted all my sins to You and stopped trying to hide them. I said to myself, 'I will confess them to the Lord.' And You forgave me! All my guilt is gone. Now I say that each believer should confess his sins to God when he is aware of them, while there is time to be forgiven. Judgment will not touch him if he does. You are my hiding place from every storm of life; You even keep me from getting into trouble! You surround me with songs of victory."

I'll let you go


Today was just one of those days where everything I did reminded me of you and every song I heard somehow related to you. I hate days like today, because they remind me of the one thing I don't have. It's really painful to say goodbye to someone that you don't want to let go but it's even more painful to ask someone to stay if they never wanted to stay.

I'm holding on to something that used to be there hoping it will come back, knowing it won't. Have you ever hated somebody so much that you wish they would just leave and never comeback but yet, loved them so much, you knew you'd die if they did?

I'm going to smile, because I want to make you happy, laugh, so you won't see me cry. I'm going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me. I'm going to smile.

I hate the way I could never hate you. Love is putting up with someone's bad qualities because they somehow complete you. Life sucks a lot of the time, right? But, you know, if you can get through a heartbreak, you can get through almost anything.

One day you'll look back and think... damn! that person really did love me... You are unmistakenably my first love. Every person I am with for the rest of my life will be compared to you.

Time and time again, i forgave you. I've forgiven you for things that I swore to myself I'd never forgive someone for... and here you are, still hurting me, and I still forgive you.

One day you'll look back, and you'll see. You've missed out on alot. And i hope that you'll not regret it.